Anonymous asked: im a guy and personally i dont see why girls are so damn insecure.... all they need is confidence not weight change.... i mean i understand if the person is overweight or unhealthy but i used to know a chick who was 5'8 and about 150 and then she lost weight like crazy and now prob. weighs 110, honestly she doesnt even look good and shes got horrible self esteem.
coming from a guy whos dated very skinny women to very curvy women i love a girl who knows what she wants and has self esteem. some girls are perfect the way they are and they complain all because they lack confidence and reassurance from society SMH

Hi, I can’t agree more to everything you said. Losing weight for me is to gain that self-esteem, to have more confidence. Moreover, I believe that shedding those extra pounds would help me be healthy. I appreciate your honesty, thank you!